But with the reuniting of my little brother comes the reuniting of my WHOLE family... I don't want to paint the image that they are terrible people but let's just say that I have an issue with one person in particular today anyway....
Let's get to the point. My mother is a Narcissist. What does that mean??? And why am I bringing it up??
Well there's to many definitions that could play here but for the sake of answering, it means it's all about "HER".
Well there's to many definitions that could play here but for the sake of answering, it means it's all about "HER".
I'm VENTING today because I'm super stressed about my trip and feel that this is a way to get it out there.
AAAnway, so I'm very very frustrated. I called my mom today to let her know a few concerns I had for the well fare of my child.
I asked her POLIETLY if she could be more AWARE of the fact that she tends to yell a lot. My daughter is NEVER around that and she is very sensitive to that sort of thing. I want this to be a good experience for my daughter. NOT a negative one.
What do you think my mom said when I told her that?
She went BERSERK. She started bringing up all this stuff from a long time ago that had NOTHING to do with our conversation and saying that I was trying to make the conversation YUCKY because of what I had suggested to her. And how I couldn't judge her and that she wouldn't change for me at all. And then the cherry on the cake was when she said that if I had SUCH an issue with it, that I could make arrangements to stay with another friend while I was visiting.
OH! By the way. I already did because I foresaw this happening MONTHS ago.
For the love of all that's holy my mom can't even RESPECT the ONE THING that would help my daughter be more comfortable. And it's not even for me it's about my kid. I want her to like visiting and not be frightened whenever she visits if EVER.
AAAnway, so I'm very very frustrated. I called my mom today to let her know a few concerns I had for the well fare of my child.
I asked her POLIETLY if she could be more AWARE of the fact that she tends to yell a lot. My daughter is NEVER around that and she is very sensitive to that sort of thing. I want this to be a good experience for my daughter. NOT a negative one.
What do you think my mom said when I told her that?
She went BERSERK. She started bringing up all this stuff from a long time ago that had NOTHING to do with our conversation and saying that I was trying to make the conversation YUCKY because of what I had suggested to her. And how I couldn't judge her and that she wouldn't change for me at all. And then the cherry on the cake was when she said that if I had SUCH an issue with it, that I could make arrangements to stay with another friend while I was visiting.
OH! By the way. I already did because I foresaw this happening MONTHS ago.
For the love of all that's holy my mom can't even RESPECT the ONE THING that would help my daughter be more comfortable. And it's not even for me it's about my kid. I want her to like visiting and not be frightened whenever she visits if EVER.
Hopefully these 10 days that I'm visiting will go by quickly so I don't have to spend to much time there. My mom stresses me out so much I haven't been able to sleep for a week because of some crap she'll pull while I'm there. And my crap I mean drama.
Don't get me wrong, my mom I guess has the intentions to be a good person but she to me, feels like nothing is ever her fault.
Well I moved 2,000 miles away from her so that my daughter could grow up without having that negative energy around her CONSTANTLY. I'm going to freaking therapy for pete sake because of her! UGH!!
Don't get me wrong, my mom I guess has the intentions to be a good person but she to me, feels like nothing is ever her fault.
Well I moved 2,000 miles away from her so that my daughter could grow up without having that negative energy around her CONSTANTLY. I'm going to freaking therapy for pete sake because of her! UGH!!
You know what she told me?? She said that She wanted to, and I quote: "Break my daughter in like the military." She means that she'll be yelling around her because she wants her to get used to it.
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????? With those words ALONE I shouldn't even visit!!!
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??????? With those words ALONE I shouldn't even visit!!!
My moms nuts. Sigh. Thank you Jenny for being my savior and letting me spend the rest of my trip with you.
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